HI EVERYONE

Thanks very much for your replies. The last 2 weeks were very hard for both of us ,I even took time off work just to sort out my head, going back tomorrow ,need to get back to some sort of normality. We have both decided to give up the ivf .It is just too hard to keep doing the drugs and having to deal with the emotional side was just to painful for both of us.   We have decided to go down the inter-country adoption route .We attended a meeting 2 years ago before we started our fertility treatment and It was always something we had in our minds . We were in contact with a couple yesterday who have adopted 2 kids and they have filled us in on all of their story, it is amazing to think that these kids who would not have any quality of life in their own country have now got such a great life, full of love and compassion from these people. I feel a sort of relief knowing that we are starting this new chapter in our lives .We both know it is a long hard ,very emotioal road also but we know now we can give it our all.When I have more information I will start up the adoption thread.

Thanks again for all your letters of sympathy and understanding .

Good luck to everybody on all your fertility treatments.We are thinking of all of you.

Love

N XXX