HI all
Hope someone can help me, myself and my partner have just been told we will not be able to conceive without IVF.. im 27 and my partner is 30 we have been trying for nearly 2 years.. I have taking the news pretty bad and trying to hide it from others to.. all i seem to do is cry and it seems like alot more people are pregnant around me so dont think that helps either.. Im hoping to get a appointment with the HARi clinic has anyone else attended this clinic and what is it like?? some of the forums i have been reading up on have scared me a small bit alot have been saying this is there 6th time doing ivf and still noting... has anyone know of someone getting pregnant on the first or second go.. sorry for all the questions and they are prob stupid ones..
Thanks for any help.
xxx
Hi Charlie,
Sorry I don't really know anything about the clinic, but myself and my husband are pretty much in the same boat as you ( we are 33 and 31 and have been trying for about a year and a half). We have been told we will have to have IVF to have any chance to conceive. We only found out last week and are barely coming to terms with it and yes suddenly it seems everyone is pregnant! Anyway I just wanted to say I really hope it all works out for you, and I'll be watching this discussion too to get any advice I can. I'm another brave face person and it's not easy at all.
Eims x
Hi Eims
Thanks for getting back to me, ah im the same im heart broking i was on holidays 4 weeks ago and have to come home i took very sick i had a 8.1 cyst on my right ovary had the operation a few days later and 7 hours after the op they told me and my partner about 2 weeks ago.. and i just cant get it out of my head.. im back with hospital in 9 days so maybe i will find out more.. my bosses wife works in the coombe so she has been very helpfull but they dont do it there she was saying to me about the hari, sims or clane clinics so gonna wait and see wat they say in a few day.. will keep posting and keep in touch.
Thanks again x x x
I attended the Hari clinic a couple years ago. I found everybody pleasent and professional.
When we attended, the main reception is downstairs and their is a small waiting area upstairs before you go into the Doctor's room. It's not that big. Maybe give them a call as there is waiting list in most clinics from what I hear.
As for the feelings they bring back memories of what I felt. Crying goes with this territory.You will have good days and bad days. As for everybody pregnant that's the hard part. I found that very difficult. Impossiable at times. As I have said to many people take each day at a time. Give the support line a call and try to go to NISIG meeting. That's were I found the help and support I needed.
I tried not to listen to people talking about how many cycles of IVF. Because everybody case is different. It's good to go prepared to the clinic with list of questions. Thats what we did, because you can forget once you start talking to the Consultants. We are blessed with twin girls through donor egg. It was are second cycle. It is a hard road, but take care of each other. And I do know people who it worked first time Try and stay possitive.
Best of luck
Cats
Hi cats
Thanks for coming back to me and thanks for the info, as you have said we are taking it day by day..
We are back with the hospital next week so as far as i know i need for them to referr me to the clinic..
We have started withour liost of questions as the doc in the hospital told us to have one for when we go back..
I will look into the meetings to see when the next one is cause im finding it very hard to speak to any of my family about it..
one again tnak you as it nice to chat to someone that has gone true with it
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